Many a times, i find myself in a situation when the biggest fight i have to put up with before concluding upon a decision is with my Own Self! Does it hold true for each one of us or its a defect just in me... ;0)...i wonder...
Such times tend to come in more often as we grow up..when before most major/minor decisions pending to b taken..the battle between the Heart and Head begins!
It sounds like a crazy case of split personality to me..and so uncanny..however i do try my best to keep things at peace within me..but the never resolving battle between the heart n head would come up soon again n again..my mind thinks,gives its own logics favouring its decision...while the heart, the dominating side of an emotional me..puts it foot down n interferes from behind every time i a just about to go according to the mind...
the result being: the confused me n a pending decision... :0) now the question that comes up in my mind is which one of them is right... N oh god pat the answer comes immediately from god only knows whr...noone is always right..n thrs no boss here.. Both have their own logics which need to be weighed n probablilties of the situation need to be determined before every decision...
My mind is more knowledgable than my heart is...but my heart loves me more than my mind... So whatever i do..i must balance them both n move ahead, n then only good things shall happen to me in the head..
While one should not be too emotional, thinking just from the heart ( remember heart doesnt think, it just loves), one cannot always be way too practical, thinking selfishly from my mind only, since selflessness lies only in the heart...
Think Maintaining a balance is the key to be followed!
what do u think?
Lotsa love
Nikita
3 comments:
Hey very nicely written.. This is a dilemma that all of us face at some or other time..
Sri Sri says that while doing business use your head and while doing a charity/social service use your heart :) Problem come when we mix them up.
love,
Sid
Ps. Keep writing.
head is always right other than matters involving relations.
Deepak
cadeepaknarula.blogspot.com
there is no such a thing in medical science that heart also has a brain to think.........it's the subconscious that argue with our every decision. when we are moving away from our goal and taking decisions our subconscious mind will remind us about our goal or our basic inner promises and thus confusion begins......always we can clear our confusions (between head and heart as u said) when we think with an end(our life goal)in mind....... just read the books '7 habits of highly effective teenagers' and 'six thinking hats'
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