Monday, January 25, 2010

Aal Izz Well!!!!!

As i woke up in the morning today and opened the daily newspaper.....a newspaper article read...."Man commits suicide after failing CA Final exams!" I was shocked to read further and realize that i knew that person....In the few conversations i had with him, he seemed to be an intelligent and hard working guy. The fact that he had taken such an extreme step put me in a state of shock and gave fuel to a debate in my house....As my mom, dad and brother carried on their arguments on whether suicides are justified or not, i went into my own thoughts remembering my few conversations with him.

His action really made me think as I said to myself.....boss yeh ho kya raha hain.... what is wrong with our generation ....y are we making our lives so stressful...and what are we running behind for.... I've spent the past few days trying to deal with my own hurdle in life coming in between me and my goal....as i spen more time in introspection, i realized the more irritated i would land up feeling due to the time that had been wasted...and i concluded that, Money, wealth, Fame and even failures are all temporary and like most things...do not last forever....what lasts forever is ur GOODNESS and KNOWLEDGE!
Most of us waste away so much of our time and efforts thinking about our past and future, that we tend to forget that there exists the PRESENT also, which is flying away at jet fast speed.....what is going to happen is not important....what is happening now is most important....

i ve grown up listening.." Competition is healthy, it forces us to do better". the maxim may have been apt in yesterday's world, but it completely loses its validity today....since with the ever increasing competition in the world, each person of the "Generation X" strives harder and harder to carve a niche for himself....in this rat race, we often forget the differentiation between right and wrong...
Isn't it true that the primary purpose of education is to teach a person to differentiate between the Rights and the Wrongs....What use is that education of, which takes a person on the wrong path, blindly in the name of competition and success.....
I feel, its good to be competitive and have a passion for achieving your goals...but not at the cost of your and ur family's happiness....After all, what is it that we are all slogging ourselves and working sooo hard for...HAPPINESS right!!

Sometime back i read a saying written by Shri Harivanshrai Bacchhan which said: "Agar tumhare man ki hon to achi baat hain....agar man ki nahin hon toh aur bhi achi baat hain kyunki tab bhagwan ke man ki hui hain...aur woh tumhari liye sabse beheter hain." So trust him and cheer up....Stop being depresses and Live each day to the fullest. Put in your efforts in the right direction in a focussed way.....be happy and keep everyone around u happy and everything else will follow on its own....AAL IZZ WELL!!!!!





5 comments:

Anonymous said...

well said nikita..... I totally agree.... "pata nahi students ko kya ho raha hai" I mean y shud any1 commit suicide just coz he didnt do well in studies or exmas !!!!! this is terrible...."Bhagwan students ko sad-buddhi de/........

TanMan said...

may i know which city you belong to/

ravi said...

see medam..........after we reached some stage and we feel that we have a security then starts commenting on everything like you only know how to live..............where did you go when you before finish ca and cs...after finishing you have got some security and you are feeling that you have achieved everything and starts commenting on everything chummaa.. don't say do hard work ,be good,go in right sirection.have dicipline,etc....which have beeeen telling by each and every person on the earth ...............everybody knows tat medam...............its their surroundings and their schooling ,and their parents which influence ones mindset......that man who suecided believe that is right...........so we and everybody should think on changing the education system in india by focussing more on fear factor....so please dont just cumma comment and cmment.......................you just finished ca and cs and having a goal of business or practise or job .....what the fuck you are giving to change the system in India. Without doing or going to anything that makes the system change and having only goal of earning money and helping temporarily to people around is not the achievement......... and please from now before commenting on anything analyse the root causes of that thing and think about the solutions to change that root causes........comment is making by every blogger and every news channel and every paper and also there are lots of swamijis who just told live without logic and have faith on god etc.. etc................think on solution angle medam............or if you dont get any solutions ,just be sit and do your work and dont make your blog like one of a news channel because ther are so many channels commenting and speeching the people good things...........

andy said...

hmmmm nice

Neha Kothari said...

Nikita this is awesome...just read it again...You really inspire me sweetheart!